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Selesai  majlis....kami ke colmar seketika utk menghirup udara segar..

Isu Pelamin

Pelamin......menjadi satu perkara yang perlu saya dan suami saya selesaikan di dalam upacara perkawinan adik2 saya...n it turns out to be a success...!!!dua pasang pengantin ...dua pelamin dalam satu majlis yang sama...

Majlis ini berjalan dengan meriah.....alhamdulillah!    Dan ia menjadi satu perkara yang maniss untuk diingati...! I love wedding functions!!

Perkahwinan adik2ku

1 Jun....adalah hari perkahwinan adik2 ku...

Semoga berbahagia selalu....kebahagian adik2 saya adalah kebahagiaan saya juga..

K.long bukannlah seorg yang perfect utk memberi nasihat kepada kalian semua...tetapi k.long sentiasa mendoakan kebahagian kalian...

adik2ku....bersihkanlah hati kita...semoga dengan perkahwinan ini menjadikan kalian matang dan hati kalian penuh dgn kasih sayang..Ya Tuhan...satukanlah hati2 kami, bahagiakanlah keluarga kami..dan berikanlah kami petunjuk ke jalan yang lurus..aamiinn...

K.long sayang sangat2 kalian semua....dan mendoakan keselamatan dan  kebaikan kalian semua,,,
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How to Deal With Criticism

Steps

1. Keep your self-esteem proportional. Don't have it too high or too low for yourself. If it is too low, you will be sensitive to criticism because it reminds you how bad you think you are. If it is too high, you will get angry at people and be disappointed of yourself. It may be difficult to maintain this balance. Just keep reminding yourself that "I am what i am and i am true to myself. I am not a perfect person but at the same time i do posses some talent.
2. Tell people to give constructive criticism to you. It doesn't hurt as much when you tell people to. 
3. Correct what they are criticising, or they will see you as stubborn or annoying.
4. Try to improve. It may sound like a cliche but this is what you can do. There is no point in mulling over those words. Look beyond the 'words'. Take it in good spirit. Make an effort to eradicate those negatives.
5.  Its a part of life. It is very important that you know that you cannot escape criticism. The more success you will find the harsher will be the criticism. Take a look at all the famous people, there are millions who criticize them. They always take it in good spirit and maybe that's why they are successful. No matter what you do there will always be people who will praise as well as criticize you. Nothing is perfect.

Tips

• Criticism means constructive advice pointing out your faults. If you are trying to deal with insults, read the articles in the related wikiHows.
• You should be polite with people so that they will not use harsh words all the time.
• If the criticism is faulty, ignore what has been said or contact the person who sent the criticism.

 

• People might think you are weird if you tell people to criticize you.
• Don't flat out tell the person they are wrong and should "stop flaming you", this doesn't make a difference whether they are right or not.

		Sumber; Wikihow

Arrogant, conceited, pompous and boastful

What are the differences between arrogant, conceited, pompous and boastful?

Arrogance:

Associated with personality. Arrogance also does not always mean 'rude', but sometimes this is the case. It is usually an internal feeling, meaning if they are rude, it's not on purpose.
Conceited:
Also associated with personality. However this time it is more connected to being rude - Conceitedness is to look down on others on purpose.
Pompous:
To go 'over board', to act 'higher up'. This just means the person is snooty - again, it does not mean they are rude all the time.
Boastful:
Self indulgent. Boastful is closely associated with the action of TELLING everyone what they did, or what they achieved.

 

 

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QUIT WASTING ENERGY...!

Anger, sad, worrying, grunge, depressed is such waste of energies...! Channel your energy towards love, faith and snagging your dreams!

Its so amazed how we can be on what they call "cloud 9 or 99" and then someone or something negative happens and immediately we neglect and forsake joy and peace for sadness and/or anger. Life is so precious and apart of living is embracing every moment that we are blessed with.

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